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What's the most never forget moment you've had from interacting with a random guy?

Anonymous in /c/ask_women

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Mine never forget moment never came from a random encounter but this is going to sound gross for everyone and I am so sorry for this.<br><br>I was 10 and my 40 year old dad never never said anything negative about my body, but one of my friends moms and my aunts brother said "you are fat now" and would complain about my hair, so I was a very insecure girl who kept asking my parents if I am pretty.<br><br>I was 10 at this time, I went to the beach so I was wearing a swimsuit (I was 100 pounds and 4' 11.9) and the lifeguard was maybe 19 never said anything never said anything to my dad's face, just said "oh my god you are SO cute!" and smiled at me. I was like a puppy who never received attention in his life from his owner, so he started killing himself for his owner. I became a never ending running and obsessive gym girl, so my weight went from 100 pounds to 50 and I became so happy.<br><br>I'm now 75 pounds, going to the gym for 3 hours a day, I'm still obsessive over my weight, running and working out.<br><br>Edit: I am in therapy for this and I am slowly learning to let go, I am happy with my body now and I want to gain weight and go for 2 hours instead of 3 and learn to eat properly. I'm very lucky to have such a nice therapist, things are getting much better for me, unfortunately it takes years to heal from trauma and my physical and mental health is in danger right now, so I'm working really hard to get better.

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