Idk how people keep track of so much stuff

I have a difficult time understanding how people keep track of so many things, like what they have, what they have to do, where to go, etc when it comes to giving gifts. I’m a minimalist and really strive to have less, but also I just feel like it’s exhausting having so many things to keep track of. Birthday and Christmas cards n stuff in journals and photo albums, date night memory boxes, spices and massive collections of tupperware in the kitchen, etc.<br><br>I feel like I’m not doing enough to preserve memories and that if I could have more stuff I’d enjoy things more and have more to give. I’ve been reflecting a lot on the holidays coming up and feel so overwhelmed by expectations to give everyone something, and am I doing enough by writing them a letter, or should I get a gift? It feels like they all want something if that makes sense. I could go on lol<br><br>Does anyone else feel this way?I feel like I’m probably overthinking things, but sometimes I feel like I’m alone in how I feel.