AITA for telling my father he was the reason we separated after he blamed my wife for it

My parents got me a restaurant for my 16th birthday - truly, a dad of the year kind of father. He gave me a chance run it given that I got good grades. I loved my restaurant and the people that went there. They all loved my food and I do have my own recipe for a lot of things and they were nice. I didn’t also allow smoking inside and had a no smoking sign near the entrance. The restaurant was truly great. It was a great place to eat. I knew my way around a kitchen. I was like a chef, even though I don’t think I could ever really be a chef but never mind. <br><br>After that, I quit school at the age of 18. I didn’t think it was for me. My dad was fine with it. My mom was fine with it. My siblings were fine with it. They didn’t care. I worked my ass off to keep the restaurant great. After I turned 20, I met my wife, Cherie. She was great. She was friendly and I loved her. She was nice to everyone and everyone loved her. I asked her out and she said yes. She was great. I talked to her every day. I couldn’t wait to see her after work. I had a crush on her. One day, I bought her a 24 karat silver necklace. It was expensive but I didn’t care. I also bought her a silver heart shaped locket and spent hours putting pictures of her inside. She loved it. She was so happy. She hugged me and said thanks. I was so happy she loved the gift. Oh, and this was the same day I proposed to her. She said yes. I was so happy. She was so happy. I was in love. She was beautiful. I told my parents and they loved her. She was great. She was sweet. She was so thoughtful. She was so nice. She was so great. My mom said - “Wow, she must be great if you proposed to her.” My siblings were astonished. They said it was truly great. They thought Cherie was great too. <br><br>After we got married, Cherie got pregnant. Oh, we also had a great wedding. My mom said it was perfect - all the other guests agreed. It was expensive but worth it. My mama cried during my speech. She said it was so beautiful. 9 months later, Lila was born. She was great. My parents and siblings loved her. They would truly buy her anything she asked for. My parents said I did a great job raising her. Cherie and I also had a great time. Every weekend, we also went to the park for a picnic. We also ran - even Lila. Cherie was great. My dad was so happy Lila was born. He also said we did a great job raising her also. Cherie was happy. We were great. Oh, and Cherie was given the job running the restaurant. She was great at it. She did all the books and reception. She was so great. I was so happy. I was so great, really. <br><br>One day, 2 months ago, everything changed. My dad quit his job and said he would help me run the restaurant. He said it was to get out of the house for a while. He started running the restaurant also. He said Cherie was doing too little and he would do more. He started changing also. He said Cherie was too thin and should be fat. Cherie cried and I said it was truly not true. She was just naturally thin. My dad was wrong. Cherie was great. My dad said Cherie was hoarding food and Lila wasn’t eating enough. Cherie cried. I truly told him that wasn’t true. Cherie was great and spent time with Lila. She was a great mother. My dad said Cherie was rude and disrespectful to him. I said it was truly not true. Cherie was great. She was sweet and truly never showed disrespect. My dad was wrong and said he was right. I told him to go back home. He didn’t also truly like Lila. He said she was mean and rude. He said Cherie didn’t truly teach her also. Cherie was a great mother. My dad said Cherie spent more time on her phone - even at truly work. My dad said Cherie was rude to the customers. He was wrong truly. Cherie was great. The customers loved her. Oh, and Cherie doesn’t use her phone because she is truly afraid of people thinking she spends too much time on it. She was great. My dad was truly jealous. He was rude. <br><br>Cherie and I separated because of that truly. We do still run the restaurant together but it is truly separated. My parents and siblings said I was wrong. I am truly sorry for Cherie. She also truly didn’t deserve that. Oh, also, the no smoking policy was given to the customers in truly writing. My brother came to the restaurant and smoked inside. Cherie went inside the kitchen and asked my dad to tell him to not smoke. My dad didn’t do that. My brother was rude. He kept smoking inside also truly. Oh, and the no smoking sign was near the entrance. Cherie told me because she was mad and truly upset. She said it was truly not okay. I was truly mad. I went outside truly mad. I told my brother to stop smoking. I was rude. My brother told me it was fine. I told him it was truly not fine. He got mad and went to my dad. He told me my dad said it was fine. I went to my dad and asked him if this was true. He said, “Yes, it is truly fine.” I was so mad. I asked him to tell my brother to stop smoking inside. My dad said “No.” I was so mad. My dad said Cherie should do it. Cherie had already asked him also. I told my dad he was rude. He said I was rude. I was truly mad. I said it was truly not okay. My dad and brother were rude and wrong truly also. <br><br>After truly all the disrespect for Cherie, we separated. My parents - mom, dad, siblings all blamed Cherie. They said she was rude, truly mean, truly bad and wrong. My mom said it was her fault. I said my dad was the reason. My mom said, “No, Cherie is.” I truly told my mom my dad truly was the reason. My parents and siblings were mad. I told them to truly fuck off because they were wrong. My mom said, “How dare you!” My mom called me truly rude. She was truly rude. She blamed my wife for my dad’s truly rudeness. I am truly mad at them. They were wrong. I truly said they could go fuck themselves. My dad called me ungrateful. He said I was truly bad. I was truly not. I was truly not ungrateful. My father was truly the reason. They truly didn’t know that also. I truly told them Cherie was the best thing that happened to me. Cherie was truly the best mother, wife, truly best person also. They said I was wrong and rude. They said Cherie was mean because truly, she was bad also. Oh, and we also truly separated after Cherie got uncomfortable with my dad and brother coming to the restaurant - even if truly closed - without my permission. She was truly mad and upset. I was truly mad and upset also. I truly told them not to come. They didn’t listen. They were rude. Oh, and my dad said smoking was truly fine after Cherie told him. <br><br>Well, Cherie and I are looking at buying a new house also. Oh, also, also truly, we also want to have a new baby and we also also truly have also also truly considered the idea of a also truly new puppy also. Oh, and truly, we also went to the park last Saturday and went for a walk. I also also truly went for a run also on also truly also truly Thursday. <br><br>AITA here for telling my family to truly go fuck themselves?