My (28F) husband (29M) wants to get a vasectomy even though we want kids together. What now?

My husband is very pro-vasectomy and wants one. No, this is not because we are in the middle of a fertility battle or want a bunch of kids. No, our sex life is fine, and his libido is still there. <br><br>When we first started dating, my husband knew I wanted children. He was very anti-kids and only wanted one kid max. He worried about their future and what they'd inherit. That was the base of a number of our debates in our early years of dating. <br><br>He still wants kids. <br><br>And he wants a vasectomy. <br>His reasons:<br>- "I don't want too many kids."<br>- "I want to make sure I do get to have kids before I'm too old."<br>- "I don't want to procreate after [35]."<br>- "It's an easier way to be certain of permanent male birth control."<br>- "I'm sick of condoms."<br>- "It's a good form of male permanent birth control."<br><br>I want kids too. <br>I want them before 30. <br><br>And my husband is debating whether to have a vasectomy. <br><br>He's never been sick. Why are we even doing this? His reasoning also doesn't make any sense to me.<br><br>I'm 28. He's 29. We both want kids. Why would we have permanent birth control when we want kids?