After spending night with my bf I should have nothing to be afraid of. A REAL woman will stand up for her bf and tell the police he didn't raped her

My bf and I broke up. He raped me and now he's in jail.<br>He deserves it.<br>He did it to other girls too.<br>What I regret the most is that I wrote a post here "I'm afraid to tell the police my bf raped me because I don't want to lose my love". I'm sad we all stood up for him when we shouldn't have. I understand wanting to defend our own I get that and I love that about us, but this is not the hill to die on. I'm tired of seeing so many women and girls getting raped by their bfs.<br>If I could tell you one thing, it would be to dont try to save him, dont try to make excuses for him. It's ok to feel angry and want to defend him but when his freedom is more important than your safety.. you need to take a step back and make the right choice. So many women I see love their bfs more than they love themselves and it breaks my heart.<br>I will not share the love I have for him, I will not share the messages he sent me, I will not share my pain. But I will share my advice and I hope it will help you all. A REAL woman will stand up for her bf and tell the police he didn't rape her. But I will not stand up for mine.