Has anyone had their partner sober up the morning after a night out, and then act like they're disgusted by the fact that they had sex with them?
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My girlfriend (26F) and I (29M) went out to a bar over the weekend. She got really drunk. We had sex when we got home, and it was fine. Nothing out of the ordinary.<br><br>The next morning, though, it was like she was a different person. She was disgusted when she thought about having sex with me, and was angry about it. Eventually she just said that she wasn't "comfortable" with having sex sober. She said she was "sorry" about it and that it wouldn't happen again. She's been really awkward since then.<br><br>Has anyone else had this happen to them? How did you handle it? She went from being my girlfriend, to pretty much acting like I violated her.<br><br>Edit:<br><br>Holy shit. Thanks for all of the awards and comments. I have no idea what to do, and this has pretty much killed my sex drive. I'm going to talk to her tonight. <br><br>Also, to clarify a few things:<br><br>1: No, I did not rape her. The sex was consensual, I'm positive of that. She was very drunk, but she was able to communicate and walk around.<br><br>2: I have no idea why she said she wasn't comfortable having sex when sober. I honestly think it was just something she said out of spite.<br><br>3: Yes, I'm going to break up with her if she's going to act like this going forward.
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