I just earned my Ph.D in Electrical Engineering and I’m an absolute loser

Title says it all. I thought if I just grind hard enough I’ll get the girl. I worked hard in school and became valedictorian. I got a good job. I was making good money. I’m on pace to be a millionaire before I’m 35. <br><br>But none of it matters. I’m fat, balding, and ugly. I’m a fucking loser. I thought if I just worked hard enough I would magically become attractive. I thought if I just worked hard enough I would get the girl. A lot of you guys here have it a lot worse than me. But for someone who was told their whole life that they were smart and could do anything they wanted, I was blindsided by just how little it actually meant.