How am I supposed to have adequate, unbiased information about women now?

I think the thing I hate most about being MenGoingTheirOwnWay is that I feel like I have no way to get the information that I need to make decisions about female relationships. I need to gather as much information as possible before deciding what kind of relationship I have with a woman. There are so many reports of women doing shitty things to men, women cheating, women being manipulative, women being condescending and abusive, etc. I have no idea which of these reports are true and which ones are not. I have no idea which of these things could be prevented if I do (or don’t do) certain things. I’ve had grown men tell me that women will do a lot of these things if you don’t show them who’s boss. I’ve had grown women tell me that women are innocent (likely self included) and that they don’t do this stuff at all. So who am I supposed to listen to? I’ve heard horror stories about male to female relationships with close friends and family before. With the abundance of these stories, I’m angry at the thought of even being in a relationship with a woman.