My boyfriend (25M) is a “passport bro” and I (25F) don’t know what to do

My boyfriend (25M) is friends with some of the “passport bros” you’ve probably heard about. They are Americans who move to countries like Georgia, Turkey, and Central America. <br><br>They have a lot of chambers communities and Telegram chat rooms dedicated to giving advice and sharing their experiences. <br><br>A few months ago, I found out that my boyfriend had an account in one of these chat rooms and was getting advice for moving to Central America to be an “expat digital nomad” if we were to break up. <br><br>He said that he never intended to actually do it and was just curious. I didn’t think much of it again until I found out he was getting advice in another chat room about how to break up with me and was making it seem like I was asking too many questions about his past and that it was annoying him. <br><br>In reality, whenever I’ve brought up his past it’s always been about future planning or something else. For example, he grew up in one city but went to college in another and his family moved to a third city after he went to college. So if we ever talk about the future and whether we’d like to settle down near his family, I’ll sometimes ask him if he thinks his family will stay where they are or if they’ll move again because they have moved before. <br><br>Or if I ask him about my interests such as if he thinks I’d like a particular city or if he thinks I should visit a particular city. <br><br>The passport bros are convincing him that I’m asking too many questions about his past, that I’m too controlling/crazy, and are convincing him to break up with me and move to El Salvador. <br><br>I’m genuinely shocked that my boyfriend is falling for this. I love him very much and thought things were going well. I have a feeling he might be using this as an excuse to break up with me and is trying to change his entire personality overnight. <br><br>He’s always been a good person who cares about others and treats people well and I don’t know where this sudden change in behavior is coming from. He’s always wanted to settle down and have kids and was proud to say he was in a happy long-distance relationship with me. But now he’s saying he’s “realized” he’s been unhappy in our relationship for a long time and is done. <br><br>I’m not sure what to do. He’s completely cut off communication with me and has moved back to his home town. He’s deleted all of his social media accounts and is ignoring my calls and texts. <br><br>I have no idea where to go from here. I’m so confused and heartbroken at the same time. I hope I can eventually get over this and move on but I’m still trying to comprehend what’s happening and what I’m supposed to do.