I (27f) cannot wait to get pregnant. I love my life but I really want children and I know when I do have them I will never wish I didn’t have them.
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I love my life right now. I get to spend quality time with my husband and dog. I have a stable job and finances. I have friends and a loving family. I get to travel and go on adventures. I do whatever I want whenever I want. I am happy. <br><br>But every time I see a baby or kids I feel this extreme back and forth emotions. I love children and I know when I do have them I will never wish I didn’t have them. <br><br>But right now I am on the fence about whether or not I am ready.<br><br>I love my life and I have spent the last 2 years getting us to this point. I don’t feel ready to leave the world of sleep ins, sleeping through the night, and not having a huge responsibility back onto others. I have spent years and years to get to this point in my life. But I am worried if I wait I will experience this back and forth emotions that feels like my heart is literally cutting itself in two whenever I see a child. <br><br>I am reminded of the phrase “have kids when you are still young enough to catch them”.<br><br>I am going to be 28 in a few months so I am still young but is the back and forth going to get worse and worse until I do have kids?
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