The guys who say they're decent are the same guys who look at other women who have been raped and say "I wouldn't hit that" ???

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this since I'm a guy <br><br>But guys who say they would never hurt a woman or hit a woman or rape a woman are quick to say things like "I wouldn't hit that" about other women who have been raped.<br><br>Like I don't get it. If a guy is claiming to be "good" he wouldn't be commenting on a women's appearance especially when she's a victim. <br><br>Please upvote if you agree and downvote if you disagree.<br><br>Edit 2: To all the guys asking why feminism is so patriarchal, the definition of feminism is equality for all genders, which is why we are working on empowering women as society has always been patriarchal and I'm sure you've seen that. If you want to see the real patriarchy, go to a developing country like Ethiopia, Ghana , India , etc. To get feminism where we deserve to be, we need to acknowledge that women are being held back and we work on that.