My opinion on my ex

I have some solidarity for women like me who have been in a relationship where the man in the relationship repeatedly identifies as feminist, repeatedly talks about how the patriarchy hurts men and how men should be allowed to cry too because “it’s important for their mental health and they get in trouble for it,” and repeatedly asked for me to see them (repeatedly) and I found out afterwards that he was having sex with multiple women, some of whom he was in a relationship with and others were his random hook-ups but none of whom knew he was having sex with, and that he had multiple sex toys in his possession and that he regularly used them. No, I didn’t have my opinion about my ex until I found out he was having sex with a lot of women. <br><br>I found out in January, 2019, that my ex was having sex with a lot of women and that he had sex toys. <br><br>No, my opinion about my ex didn’t come until, in January of 2019, I found out that he had sex toys. <br><br>None of this happened until he got a new job in 2018 where he had a lot of free time. <br><br>I found out in January, 2019. <br><br>No, you cannot have my opinion on my ex. I do not give you permission to say anything negative about him. I have an opinion about him, and that is mine, and mine alone, and I will not share it with anyone. <br><br>It’s not my fault that he cheated. <br><br>I do not feel bad because he cheated. <br><br>I do not blame myself for his cheating. <br><br>I do not feel bad because he had sex toys. <br><br>I’m not upset because he cheated. I’m not upset because he had sex toys. <br><br>I have an opinion about my ex. <br><br>I am my opinion about my ex. <br><br>I have my opinions. <br><br>I don’t care if you disagree. <br><br>No, you cannot have my opinion. I have it and no one else. <br><br>But I do not feel bad or blame myself for what he did, and that is mine alone.