What is the process of spoiling a child?

So I have a 3yo daughter, and I realise I am probably spoiling her but I'm not sure what exactly it is about the way I am parenting that is making it happen. Spoiling is something I am against as I think it can lead to really bad outcomes, but for some reason I just can't help myself with this little girl. I don't remember what it's like to parent a child in a way that doesn't spoil them because I'm so used to being a parent now and I feel like I am doing it wrong. And while it's great, I don't think it's what she needs for her own good. <br><br>So, what are the things a parent should avoid doing to prevent spoiling their children? <br><br>&#x200B;