Asian boss is racist to me for trying to get "higher marks"

I'm a half-Asian lady with curly brown hair and often get mistaken for being black or white. I'm having trouble with my life partner (who is African-American) getting higher marks on the EGG. We are trying to get higher marks on the EGG because we want to know if our kid will be any cuter than me. I'm self conscious about my nose too. Will my kid have a bigger nose? <br>My boss is Asian and told me that trying to get higher marks is racist because I'm making assumptions about the correlation between race and beauty. She says that this is racist because I'm assuming they're racist standards of beauty. <br> I feel like no matter what I do, I'm being called a racist, whether I try to get higher marks on the EGG or not. Is my Asian boss being racist towards me for accusing me of being racist?