[UPDATE] my brother(19m) ripped up my(16f) stan lee autograph

here is the original post in case you havent read it yet, or you want to refresh your memory<br><br>my(16f) grandpa passed away in february 2020 and not a lot of people came to the funeral because of the covid pandemic so my family got a lot of death money from family and friends, i decided to use the money to get a poster with the signatures of most of the marvel actors on it(signed by 38 people including, but not limited to, Robert Downey Jr, Chris Hemsworth, Mark Ruffalo, Chris Evans, Scarlett Johansson, Jeremy Renner, Brie Larson, Bradley Cooper and Kevin Feige). i also got it certified authenticity from a company called beckett grading services or something like that, and got it framed and this is the reason why i didn't keep chad on the wall, because i was too afraid that it would get damaged. i keep it on the floor in my room propped up against the wall, and everything was fine untill yestarday. yestarday i had a panic attack and had to go to the hospital, i got home at around 5pm, usually my brother picks me up but this time my mom came because he had a meeting with some uni people, i got home and noticed something was wrong. when i entered my room i saw the poster torn up on the floor with my autograph missing and my brother was nowhere to be found, i asked my mom wtf was going on and she told me that my brother ripped it up when she came home from work, he thought that i was dead or something(she didnt hear me come home and he didnt either) and i think he ripped it up because he thought it could get him some money, i dont know, but he had been mentioning that he would sell it for a lot of money if it were his for the past week or so, i called him and yelled at him but he told me to calm down and that he would fix it and hung up on me, he has to pay me back for it, but the authenticity papers got destroyed along with the poster so i can't get it certified again, i dont even know how i'm going to get the autograph back. chambers is there anything i should do? i feel like i'm just going to explode, i havent stopped crying since i came home, this poster meant so much to me and he just destroyed it without even talking to me, he just destroyed it like it was nothing, something that was so important to me. please help<br><br>__________<br><br>i have gotten so many comments since i posted this, a lot of people have been telling me to do this or do that, or some people saying that it's just a poster and to grow up. things like these are not really helpful so please don't comment with things like this, i understand this is just a poster, and i'm fully aware that it doesn't compare to losing an actual person, i lost my grandpa, i know what it feels like and that's why i got the poster, to honor his memory. i have been reading through your comments and i appreciate the support, thank you all so much for being kind and giving me advice, i really appreciate all of you.<br><br>i was talking to a friend yesterday and i mentioned the certified authenticity papers and the frame, they said that they would contact the company that certified it and see if they could find the papers, if they did i could contact the company that i purchased it from and they would send me a new one(a new one means that they would re-auction it and get new signatures) it would take months to get it, but the autograph would be back and i would get the papers back and get it certified and framed again, i asked them if they could help me with the frame and they said yes, i told them that the poster had been ripped up and they said that they could fix it, they would just glue the missing parts together and get it framed again, so basically, i would get the autograph and the papers back, which is all i care about, and they would fix the poster and the frame, and give it back to me with everything fixed and i wouldn't have to pay for it, all i had to do was wait a couple of months and it would be back like nothing had happened.<br><br>i haven't talked to my brother yet, and i'm not really planning on it right now, i'm incredibly angry and hurt right now and the only thing keeping me from exploding is knowing that the autograph would be back, i dont know how he is feeling or what he is thinking, but i dont really care right now, i just want my autograph back and if i get it i would be the happiest person in the world, last night i couldnt sleep, but knowing that i would get it back made me happy and not depressed, so i'm just going to wait, thank you all for your kind comments, i appreciate them so much, and thank you to my friend for helping me, you're an angel sent from heaven <3<br><br>_______________________________<br><br>also for the people that are telling me that my brother could have been going through something bad or anything like that, he is on a scholarship in a different city, so not in the same house or city as me, so i wouldn't know what he's going through even if i tried, and no, we are not close