Is it just me or does it feel like having a regular relationship now-a-days feels like a luxury to you all?

Recently I just don't feel like putting in the effort into dating. I've done it in the past, I've been burned and I have come to the conclusion that I don't need a woman in my life, at least for the next 5 years. I've had a couple of relationships in the past, and I feel that I can be happy now being by myself.<br><br>I'm not sure what it is, but in todays world it feels like a luxury to have that "spouse" to share your time with. I don't want to settle for some low value woman, who is now overweight, has a bunch of debt, and has a bucket list of "things she wants to do before she hits 30". I just don't see the need for a relationship, and to be honest its quite foreign to me to want to be in one.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Edit: Grammar nazi here, lol. Also, if you are a woman and are in this sub, asking questions etc.. Good on ya, because I would rather be an outcast on a chamber filled with a bunch of guys, then on a sub filled with females who talk nothing but crap about us.