My (f22r) pseudo bf (25m) got out of jail on Friday and absolutely insists on seeing me the same day despite having another girl in his life. I'm really confused on what to do.

I've been talking to this guy for almost 4 years. He's been in jail for about 2 months. He reached out to me while in jail, showing me that absolutely nothing has changed and he still cares for me. He's been saying he's going to come home to me and we're going to be together like we were before, he's getting ready for our future together and he needs to see me. Absolutely nothing has changed. He's pseudo my lightly bf because he's having hard time saying he's my bf. I've been his girl, absolutely nothing has changed in his eyes.<br><br>Just another note, this is a little different from the last post I made in pseudo relationship advice. It's a different situation and the advice I got before now no longer applies. I want to know what I should do now.<br><br>The situation is:<br>I had 0 idea he was seeing another girl until like two weeks ago. He was being all cute and saying he needed to spend time with me and he was going to see me and that he was super excited and that he loved me. He was always talking about how he was going to see me and that he was going to see me almost immediately and that he was going to be all mine. Then, on the 16th of July I decided to look up his dudes Facebook. I saw on his profile that he added a girl from his hometown. I was like, "Hmm, I wonder who this is." So, I went through the pictures she posted. I immediately saw a very recent picture of him hugging her. It was a "selfie" where she was looking at him and he was looking directly in the camera. Honestly, I kinda felt like he was telling me that he wasn't going to see me by doing this. Then I saw another picture of them hugging and she was kissing him and she posted "I love you." That was a punch to the gut. It hurt to see that, and I completely broke down. After that day, I decided he absolutely couldn't be my bf anymore. He was seeing another girl and he told me to wait for him while he was in jail and that he was going to be all mine. <br><br>Honestly, I'm really confused on why he's still saying that he's going to see me. I feel like he's being very manipulative with me. I don't know what to do or why he keeps on saying that he's going to see me. He was super sweet and affectionate towards me, then I see that he's been seeing another girl. I feel like he's seeing me to be loyal to me and to keep me around. I think it's because he's still showing me on his Facebook that we're still in a relationship. He hasn't changed his relationship status. I think he's trying to get me to say that we're broken up. He wants me to say that we're not together anymore. When I brought up the conversation of him seeing me, he completely changed the subject and stopped answering me. I don't know what he wants. I know he still cares about me, but it feels absolutely wrong in this situation. I know another girl wants him, but so do I. I want to know what I should do or what he's thinking or something.<br><br>TLDR: I found out that my pseudo bf of 4 years is seeing another girl after he says he wants to spend time with me when he gets out of jail. Absolutely nothing has changed in his eyes, but I don't know why he keeps on saying that he's going to see me and he wants to be with me. I know you can't really know what he's thinking so I want to know what I should do. I want to know if I should see him or say no. <br><br>Edit: He got out on Friday the 22nd. He's made no effort to see me. He's going on his own way with his life. He's still showing me that we're still in a relationship on Facebook, but it really doesn't matter at this point. When I saw that picture, I decided that he absolutely couldn't be my bf anymore. I think if he's still seeing me after all this and being my bf, then it's disrespecting me and the other girl. <br><br>I decided that he was showing me that I'm nothing to him and I was right. He got out and he made no effort to contact me. I expected this. He was always dishonest with me and I knew it. I didn't want to believe it but now I do. I have no idea what he's going to do. I have no idea if he's going to contact me. He can still show me that he cares about me but he absolutely can't be my bf. <br><br>I'm not going to message him. He's going to have to reach out to me if he wants to contact me. I'm doing better after seeing that picture. I'm not feeling as lost and hopeless anymore. I don't want to reach out to him and look desperate. I'm going to sit back and let him come to me.<br><br>Edit 2: I posted a picture of myself in a cute outfit and he commented on it. It was a very cute comment. I texted him and said that I missed him a lot and I wanted to see him. He said he was coming to see me after he got off work the day before yesterday. I waited for him, but he never showed up. He never texted or called me. He completely flaked on me. The next day, he said that he was on his way to see me and he asked if I was off work. I told him that I wasn't and he said that he wasn't coming to see me. He completely invited me to dinner with his friends and I said that I wasn't going to go. He said that he was sorry and he felt bad for completely flaking on me. <br><br>Honestly, I'm surprised that he's so excited to see me considering I won't be his gf. I told him I was seeing another guy and the day before yesterday he was being super cute and saying that he couldn't wait to see me. He finally showed up last night and I was absolutely shocked. He didn't expect me to tell him that I couldn't see him again. He completely thought that I was going to go with him. He was telling me to come with him to his hometown and he acted like I was his girlfriend. I asked if he knew another girl and he said yes. He said that she was his girl and she was absolutely nothing to him. I honestly still think I'm nothing to him. He came to my house and I was really surprised that he showed up. I don't want to say too much, but he completely invited me to dinner with his friends again and I said yes. He completely knows that I'm trying to find another guy. He completely knows that. I completely know why he's trying to get me to see him. I'm not going to fall for it.