My (28F) boyfriend (30M) won't have sex with me because of my first partner
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months.<br>He has been honest with me about his sex life from the very beginning. He did tell me that he wouldn't date a girl who had been with more than 3 guys. <br>I’ve been with 4.<br>I told him immediately when we were first talking. He accepted it.<br>Later on in the relationship, he started giving me less attention. So I asked him about it, and he told me a few days ago that he’d be more attracted to me if I’d been with less people. I asked him “what can I do for you to see me as a more attractive person?” He said nothing. <br><br>I’ve just recently found out that we haven’t had sex in over 2 months because his desire to have sex with me is gone. He doesn’t even look at me anymore. I confronted him about how hurtful it was for me to hear that he’s turned off by me having a past. He denies he said that. <br><br>I don’t know what to do. He told me the reason we haven’t had sex is because he was stressed with work and finances. But when I asked him if there was any other reason and he said yes. He said it’s because of my past, and I reminded him that he knew my past before we started dating, and that he even told me it was okay. He said he lied. He said he was Overlaying it and that he didn’t want to believe it. He said a woman having intercourse with more than one man is disgusting to him. So I asked him why he changed his mind? Did he finally see the truth? He said he doesn’t know. He just said maybe he’s ignorant. He said he doesn’t know what to believe. I told him a man having intercourse with one woman or many women is the same thing a woman does when she sleeps with one or many men. He said he disagrees and that there is a difference, but he wouldn’t elaborate. <br><br>I have a bad feeling that he’s lying to me about something. I’m so confused and I don’t know what to do.
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