How do I break up with my girlfriend if she won't leave me?
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I’m a 24 year old guy, my girlfriend is 21. She’s been living with me for three months. Ever since she moved in, she’s had a job for two weeks. Other than that, she’s been freeloading and sitting around the house doing absolutely nothing. She won’t look for a job, she won’t do any of the chores, she doesn’t even clean up her stuff. I just woke up this morning to her in the bathroom. She showered, got dressed, and left for the day. I have no idea where she’s going. The last time she went out was to get food delivered for her. She asked me to pay for it; I told her no. She had to call her mom to pay for it because she’s dead broke. <br><br>I’ve asked her to get a job, I’ve asked her to contribute by doing some of the chores. She doesn’t do either. I’ve gone as far as to not give her money for food. I won’t pay her rent, I won’t pay her phone bill, and I refuse to pay for her car note. I don’t even buy her food anymore. I give her directions on how to apply for jobs and links to the websites but she never applies. She’s been sitting on the couch playing video games for three months. <br><br>I had enough tonight. I sat her down and talked to her about my expectations. I told her if she doesn’t start putting in effort into finding a job, helping around the house, or even just cleaning up her stuff I’m going to break up with her. She got very angry and told me she has no where to go. I told her to go to her mom’s house; she said her mom would kick her out. I told her I’d help her find somewhere to live when that happens. She told me she has no money to pay rent or a lease so I told her I would absolutely not pay for her to live somewhere else. If she can’t afford to live on her own then she needs to get a better job. <br><br>This is my last straw. I have had enough. I’ve been more than patient with her. I’m sick and tired of giving my girlfriend money to sit on her ass all day. I’m sick of coming home from work to trash and filth. I’m sick of her leaving hair in the sink but refusing to clean it. I’m sick of her leaving dirty dishes on the counter until I get home from work and do it. She does no cleaning, has no job, and contributes nothing to the household. I want her out but she won’t leave. How do I get my girlfriend out of my house?<br><br>Update: Holy cow this has really blown up! My girlfriend saw this post a few days ago and it really set her off. She cannot stop laughing about it and thinks it’s the funniest thing ever. I told her to stop using my things and she told me to stop whining on the internet. <br><br>So the post history thing is a little exaggerated. I did live with a different girl before this one and she also did not have a job. I’d met her when she was working at a fast food joint then she got a job at a retail store. She didn’t like the retail store environment so she quit and got a job at a call center. She hated working at a call center so she quit and got a new job. She didn’t like the new job so she quit and got a job at a gas station. I broke up with her because she couldn’t hold a job and I couldn’t understand how she couldn’t hold a job for more than three months. <br><br>I broke up with her because she couldn’t hold a job. I got with my current girlfriend because she had a job and was really nice. She could do all of these things, but then she lost her job. It’s been three months since she’s had a job. I told her I’d give her three months to get a new job and if she didn’t, I’d break up with her. Here we are.<br><br>tl;dr: ex couldn’t hold a job, current ex can’t get a job
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