I've never "cucked" a woman before, but never understood the concept of it until now.

I've always been a bit of a loner that was forced to interact with people by society. More often than not, I'd just walk away from a toxic dynamic and if someone tried to call me out on it I'd just shrug and walk on.<br><br>Recently, I had one of these interactions with a lady-friend. <br><br>I was casually seeing one of my co-workers. A short, petite and ethnically diverse woman who was approximately 10 years younger than me. I was her first "casual" boyfriend. I was the 5th guy she'd sexed. She had a kid. When I'd go over to her residence, her son would hang out with us. We'd all chill together in the living room. She'd be all over me in the bed, and I could visibly see her son in the living room adjacent to us. It didn't matter to her. I'd never personally been with a single mom before, so the experience was both rewarding and disturbing.<br><br>So I again had sex with her on one of my days off from work. She left her toothbrush at my place. I had to leave roughly 4-5 hours later to go pick up my dog from a friends place. I texted her and let her know that I was going to be a bit late, so I'd be grabbing my dog and bringing it home.<br><br>She said she was on her way over. It turned out that she had called me and I missed her call in my hurry to take my dog home. She didn't have my housemates phone number, so I asked her to wait at a nearby park until I got back. She said she was already on her way over. I told her not to come over, as I wasn't home. She said she was there.<br><br>I was 20 minutes away. 10 min later, she FaceTimed me. I picked it up, and my housemate answered it. She asked him if he had a toothbrush she could use, and he let her into the house.<br><br>She then FaceTimed me again on my phone, and I could see her face and our bedroom in the background. I asked her what she was doing, and she said she was waiting for me inside. I told her that I wasn't going to be home for **another 30 minutes** at the **earliest**. I live in a big city, so everything takes time to get to. She said she was already at my place, and that she didn't want to get out of the car. I told her that I didn't want her in my place alone. She said she'd been alone in my house before. I told her I wasn't home to allow her in, and she said she was the one who let herself in.<br><br>My housemate starts talking to me through the phone, and she gets upset. Apparently, my housemate has a skin condition which makes his skin really red. She thought he was some random red-faced angry dude that I was talking to. I told her that he was just my housemate and that he has a skin condition. I told her that since she was already inside, she could wait in the living room until I got home. She said she felt uncomfortable.<br><br>Then she looked behind her, screamed, and dropped the phone. I get a text from my housemate immediately. He said she let herself into my room, and found his girlfriend's things. Apparently him and his girlfriend had a falling out and she left her makeup and hair shit in my room. He didn't want to touch it because he was afraid she'd think he was snooping and would get mad at him. I told him "fuck that bitch" and to throw it out. He was afraid she'd get mad at him. So it just sat in my room.<br><br>My housemate is an extremely tall and skinny white dude with red skin. His girlfriend is a very short black woman. She's not a black bitch or a black hoe, she's an incarnation of the goddess herself. She is so beautiful and divine that to even describe her appearance would be to sin. When she's angry, the ground shakes and the seas boil. My housemate saw her angry once and now he's afraid of her.<br><br>Anyway, she was in my room for 5 minutes. She took a video of my housemates girlfriends hair products, my aftershave and my housemates used condom wrappers on the floor. She sent the video to my housemate asking him "why is your condom wrappers in his room?" And "why are your girlfriends hair stuff in his room?" My housemate is going to text her an explanation that it's all his stuff and that I wouldn't do that to him. He's going to throw out her hair stuff and everything.<br><br>What really bothers me is that this bitch came into my house uninvited and felt like she could police my private bedroom. Who does she think she is? She knows I'm not dating anyone else. But why does she think she can just come and go whenever she wants? She's texted me 20 times since then, with the last one being a TikTok video of her son calling me "dad". That shit was really messed up. Her son knows I'm not his dad.<br><br>I've never experienced "cucking" because I've always lived by myself. I've never had a housemate I get along with, much less one with a girlfriend he can share a space with. For the first time ever, I experience the feeling of having someone intrude into my private space and felt like my home was being disrespected. She had no right to come into my room or take videos of my stuff. I was already on my way home. If she didn't want to wait in the living room for me, she could have waited in the park for another 30 minutes.<br><br>When I get home, I'm going to tell her that it's over. The decision was made the moment she walked into my room. Every time I get home past the hour she expects, she's going to feel disrespected and entitled enough to just walk into my room and police my shit. And the fact that she recorded it and sent it to my housemate shows she's trying to create a conflict that isn't there.<br><br>I'd much rather be alone than have some bitch who thinks she can police my home and my housemates life. I'm going to come home, see if she's still there or if she leaves before I get there, break up with her and go about my day.<br><br>?