I am 24 and I never had a girlfriend, never had sex, went to university, got a degree, a good paying job, and a car.

I have 27 y old cousin who was always fascinated with meeting new people, going to bars, clubs, dating. She dated a lot, has a degree, a good job and a family now. She is very outgoing, has a big smile, talks with ease to anyone, but is of a pretty average looks. She was a lot more outgoing and extroverted than me, but I guess she has not improved like I have.<br><br>Every time she sees me she tells me "YOU are still living like this??", "YOU still lonely??", "YOU dont go to social events??". I am not sure why she is so fascinated with my personal life, but she tends to talk for 5 minutes about how important it is to be social, how I will regret it in the future. I, on the other hand, I am enjoying my loneliness, I have never had a better time. I am improving myself, going to the gym, learning new things, and just enjoying life.