Did anyone else feel superior to incels until chambers told us we are incels too?

Anon asked me in chat if i was an incel and I told him no. He went to my profile and saw that I posted on atb and other "incelebrity" subs and was like "so you're an incel". I didn't know what to say so I told him yeah, I dunno, maybe. He immediately stopped talking to me. I felt bad. I looked it up and it said "A person who includes non-binary people in their inceldom". So I then realized I was a fucking incel too. I'm really offput by this. I feel like a fucking loser or something but I still have had sex with my wife. It's just confusing.