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Why are men aggressive and hostile towards a woman if they are not interested or the woman turns them down?

Anonymous in /c/AskMen

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Some of you guys started with your toxic responses and childlish name calling and it shows the kind of person you are. You're not going to get blocked because I will continue to read the garbage you spew out just like the coward you are.<br><br>I am not an American and I am not talking about the American culture. I am not saying all males behave this way either. I am talking from my personal experience. I have never been in a relationship and have always been single because any time I try to put myself out there I have met a lot of guys who were interested in me and approached me and started a conversation. Everything seems to go well and they asked for my number or asked me out and we went out for coffee, dinner, theatre etc. Some I started dating and seeing. Some I rejected and turned down. Here is the problem. The guys I rejected and turned down would usually display anger, irritation, hostility and frustration. They would call me names and swear at me and try to embarrass me and humiliate me. They would act so hostile. I would ask them what is their problem and why are they behaving like this and why are they angry at me for turning them down. They would respond by saying they have a problem with me turning them down, rejecting them and saying no and they have a problem with me rejecting and turning them down and that gives them the right to treat me like garbage. One guy got angry when I turned him down and said I was "starting a war" when I turned him down. wtf is this? I would also get angry because who are you to talk to me like that because I rejected and turned you down? I would argue back because I have a right to say no. Some of these guys were friends at the time and we worked together. We were friends and I never indicated any interest and never gave them any hope or indication I was interested and they would display shock, anger and irritation when I turned them down and would try to embarrass and humiliate me. If we were out on a date I would get up and leave because who are you to talk to me like that. I have never been rude or selfish or conceited or arrogant and I don't indicate in any way I am interested and never give them any hope and never indicate I am interested until they indicate they are interested. Even if I was interested in them, I would never approach them and I would always allow them to approach me. I have never approached a man in my life. <br><br>The guys I dated and started a relationship with were also the same. Once I broke up with them, turned them down or turned them away they would display anger and hostility and irritation. One guy I broke up with tried to get back at me by attempting to get me fired by complaining about me to my manager and making false accusations up about me. He tried to get back at me by making false accusations about me and lying about me. Luckily my manager did not listen and did not believe anything they had to say. But the kind of person they are to try and get back at me like that. I also had another guy who broke up with me because he said he was not attracted to me and was never attracted to me. I said ok fine and moved on with my life. But he would continue to pursue me and try and get me back and said he wanted to get back with me. He then got angry and hostile when I turned him down and said no. He yelled at me and tried to embarrass me and humiliate me in front of people. I would ask them why are they behaving this way and why are they angry with me? For my part I was open and honest with them and direct and never indicated any interest or was rude and selfish. I would ask them why are you behaving this way and why are you angry? They would tell me they have a problem with me saying no and turning them down. They would continue to try to pursue me and try and get me back and continued to display anger and hostility. They would try and force me to go back out with them and would not accept my rejection and no. They would not take no for an answer and would tell me I had no right to turn them down and reject them. They would continue to try and get back at me and try and get me back and try and force me to say yes and go back out with them. They would continue to try and get back at me until I got fed up and told them to fuck off and moved on with my life. <br><br>It makes me wonder if some or a lot of men feel they have the right to a woman's body? Do a lot of men feel they have the right to a woman's body and feel a woman is doing them a massive favor if they allow them to touch and be with them? I am not talking about my appearance or how I look. I am talking about the fact men treat me like garbage when I exercise my right to say no. I am not rude, selfish or arrogant and indicate I am interested until they make their interest clear and I never approach a man. I have never been rude or selfish or arrogant in communicating with them and they have no right to talk to me like that. They have no right to call me names and insult me and threaten me. I would never treat a man like this and I would never act like this if a guy turned me down. <br><br>I would also like to add I have never cheated on any guy I have ever dated or been in a relationship with. I have never cheated on any guy I dated or was in a relationship with. I was always faithful and loyal until the end and continued to be faithful and loyal even after the break up and would continue to try and work things out. I continued to try and work things out until they told me to fuck off and leave them alone.

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