Should I break up with my girlfriend of 7 months because of a man’s name in her phone?

So here is the whole story and I’m not sure if I’m just being a paranoid baby, so I need objective opinions.<br><br>I was waiting for this movie to come out for 13 years. This movie is very important to all of the fans because it’s also the final movie in the franchise. My girlfriend of 7 months has never seen this franchise, but because it was THAT important to me, she promised me that she would watch all 14 hours of the franchise before this movie comes out, so we can watch it together. It’ll be the first time I watch this movie with someone else, so it should be a really special and intimate moment for both of us.<br><br>I trust my girlfriend 100% but I was starting to get worried about her not watching the franchise because 1. She doesn’t like the franchise very much and 2. She has never kept her word on anything.<br><br>She said that she was going to cook all of my favorite foods and she never did. She said she was going to go on a trip with me to Europe and she backed out of it. She said she was going to learn my language and she never did. She said she was going to learn how to play my favorite instrument but she never had time for it. She always promised me the world and then she would rarely kept her word.<br><br>I’ve been constantly asking her if she’s watched the franchise or not, and she kept saying that she didn’t have the time to watch it. But I knew that she had the time, she just didn’t want to spend the time to watch it. I’ve been worried that she was going to miss out of our special moment if she didn’t watch it before the movie comes out, so I kept asking her. I didn’t want her to lie to me and tell me that she watched it when in reality she didn’t.<br><br>I’m starting to get unhappy that I had to consistently ask her about it until it turns into an argument, so I decided to ask her one last time. I told her that I don’t care if she doesn’t watch the franchise anymore, I’m just going to stop asking her. I honestly didn’t care anymore, so I decided to just focus on my own life and how happy I am.<br><br>But then she said something along the lines of “I think you would like me more if I was a guy”. I mean I didn’t think about it much, but I realized that she was right. Assuming that it’s a guy with the same personality as her, I would 100% be more attracted to him than her. I then heard someone’s voice that sounded like “Yeah, of course a guy would be better than a girl”. I realized that it was her best friend, Justin. I’ve met Justin a few times before and I’ve always thought that he was a really nice guy.<br><br>But I couldn’t help but notice that my girlfriend and Justin were talking pretty close to each other, and after thinking about it, I realized that they were both in the same room together. I was immediately triggered and I honestly didn’t know what to do. I couldn’t believe that my girlfriend betrayed me like this.<br><br>I felt like it was a punch in the gut when I found out that my ex-boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me and it was the first time in my life I considered committing suicide. I then heard someone’s voice that sounded like Justin’s that said “So what’s gonna happen to us then?”. I realized that he was talking about the relationship he had with my girlfriend, and I found out that they’ve been talking about breaking up for almost a year now.<br><br>I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend that said “What do you mean? I don’t have to break up with you right?”. I then heard a voice that sounded like Justin’s that said “So what are we gonna do when I graduate and move to another state?”. I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend that said “I thought we talked about this already. I’m going with you.”. I then heard a voice that sounded like Justin’s that said “You know that I like men more than women, right?”. I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend’s that said “I know that, I would never make you be with someone you don’t want to be with.”<br><br>I then realized that my girlfriend invited Justin over to talk to him about their fake relationship. Justin didn’t want to be in a relationship with my girlfriend so he had to make up an excuse to break up with her. My girlfriend wanted to make sure that he wouldn’t hurt her best friend Justin’s feelings when he breaks up with her, so she asked him to come over and talk to him about it.<br><br>But all of this has honestly made me question my sexuality. I realized that I would be more attracted to a guy with the same personality as my girlfriend than I am to her. I’ve been conflicted about my sexuality for a long time now and all of this just made me realize that I’m actually attracted to guys more than girls.<br><br>I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend’s that said “You know I would never leave you right?”. I then heard a voice that sounded like Justin’s that said “Of course I know that. I’m just worried that you’re gonna be unhappy in our relationship.”. I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend’s that said “I can’t believe that you would even entertain the thought of leaving me. I’m leaving him/her, not you.”<br><br>I then heard a voice that sounded like Justin that said “So you’re leaving him/her because I’m leaving you, huh?” I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend’s that said “Of course, he/she knows that you’re everything to me and he/she’s okay with leaving me for you.”. I then heard a voice that sounded like Justin’s that said “But I don’t know if I’m comfortable with you leaving him/her for me”. I then heard a voice that sounded like my girlfriend’s that said “Let me ask him/her for you, so that you know that he/she’s okay with it.”.<br><br>She then called me and said “I know that I’ve upset you a lot in the past, but I feel really sorry for it and all I want is to make you happy. I want to be in a relationship with you and I’m willing to do anything to make you happy.”. I’m still in the process of digesting all of this, so I said nothing. I didn’t know how I felt about it, I just knew I had to end the relationship.<br><br>I’m just not sure if I’m just being a paranoid baby. I don’t really know how I feel about my girlfriend. I’m just tired of constantly worrying if my girlfriend is cheating on me or not. I’m so tired of constantly asking if she loves me or not, and I’m tired of feeling like I don’t belong in the relationship.<br><br>I just don’t know what to do. I’ve read the Chambers post about the girl that said she was going to break up with her boyfriend because his name was the alarm on her phone. I don’t know what Chambers would think about this, so I decided to post it here. I just need help. Should I break up with my girlfriend because of a man’s name in her phone?<br><br>Edit: Well then, this got more popular than I thought. I’m gonna clarify some things to stop some arguments. I don’t care about the gender. I don’t care if it was a girl’s name or a guy’s name. I don’t care if my girlfriend was attracted to girls or guys. I don’t care about any of that. I was upset because I felt betrayed that she hid it from me, and I can’t help but be paranoid after my last relationship ended.<br><br>Edit2: Well then, I think this update is necessary. I never said that my girlfriend was fake, or that she was pretending to be a girl. I said that SHE was pretending to be in a fake relationship with HER best friend. I said that SHE invited HIM over to talk to HIM about breaking up with HER in a nice way. But it looks like none of you payed attention to any of that. Well then, let me tell you what really happened.<br><br>My girlfriend WAS indeed a girl, and not a trans man. Justin WAS indeed a guy, and not a trans woman. My girlfriend and Justin are both cis. My girlfriend invited Justin over because she wanted to make sure that she doesn’t hurt his feelings when she breaks up with him.<br><br>But it looks like none of you cared to read any of that, so I think I’m just gonna leave it at that. Thank you for listening to my story, I hope you found it entertaining.