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My (29M) wife (28F) has me sleep on the couch every night because I snore?

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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We've been married for 5 years and I never knew I had a severe snoring issue until I started dating my wife. We've been together for 7 years now and she's always complained about my snoring. We slept in a king sized bed for a while, but she said it made things worse. However, things did not get better when we upgraded to a California king. In fact, she made excuses to sleep on the couch more frequently and would wake me up in the middle of the night to tell me to sleep on the couch. I was annoyed, but I wanted to sleep so I did it. <br><br>But now she just has me sleep on the couch every night. She'll come down and get me on the weekends and we'll sleep together for the entire night. But during the week she has me sleep on the couch. I don't know how to feel about it. I feel emasculated in a way. Also, I don't get the best sleep on the couch as well as I would on a bed. I'm going to bring it up with her. I'm planning on telling her how I feel. Should I force the issue by making us sleep together or should I let her have her way? I don't know if I should make a huge issue about it.<br><br>Advice would be greatly appreciated!

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