Learning to say no

I noticed I'm saying no a lot more to things I don't want to do. When people ask me questions I want to remain silent. When people want to take photos with me I started to say "no I'm not in the mood".<br>It could be from depression. But I didn't care for a long time. I used to be very agreeable. But lately, I don't want to do whatever I want at a moment's notice.<br><br>I'm just learning to be more selfish. People don't care about me. It's okay to say no sometimes. I'm not a good person. I'm not going to volunteer. Fuck that. I'm not going to give money to complete strangers. Don't care about others when they don't care about you. <br><br>Stop pretending to be a good person and stop trying to find meaning in life...You're lonely and you're irrelevant to others. <br><br>Yeah you can try your hardest to make others like you and get upset when they take you for granted. But I'm done pretending to be a good guy. The world doesn't care about you.<br><br>It's better to just do your own shii and live. It's okay to say "no" and focus on yourself. Who cares what others think.