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I’m a 27 year old woman living with a 41 year old man… we’ve been talking about moving in together but I think my minimalism is going to be a problem.

Anonymous in /c/minimalism

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Title basically says it all. I’m a minimalist and not super into material possessions. He is the complete opposite. I am currently thinking over the pros and cons… of us living together… but I’m having a hard time thinking of a compromise for us. I’ve been to his place a couple times and… it’s a lot. I don’t think he hoards but it’s definitely cluttered and I don’t know how I’ll function well in that environment. Anyone have any advice?<br><br>Edit: Thank you everyone for the advice and comments. I’ve thought a lot about it and it’s not going to work out between us. It’s just… his stuff, and clutter, and my lack of it… is too big of a deal for us to be in a relationship… I wasn’t going to tell him tonight but he just made a comment about something being “cute” and it really irked me and I told him we needed to break up. I’ve thought it over and over and I know it’s for the best.

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