Girlfriend is pregnant and I’m not happy about it, what should I do?
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Girlfriend (22) and I (24) have been together for a year and a half, and I’m not sure if I can continue dating her.<br>We use protection, but she recently became pregnant. I was upset about it, and she couldn’t understand why it was a problem.<br> She was thrilled to be pregnant, so we had a lengthy discussion. I was honest about my feelings. She shared her thoughts, and we both expressed our concerns.<br>It’s clear that she doesn’t feel comfortable with abortion, but I don’t believe I’m ready for fatherhood at this stage of my life.<br>I admitted to her that I’ve never wanted to be a parent and that this will be a life-changing event for me.<br>It’s clear that she doesn’t feel comfortable with abortion, but I don’t believe I’m ready for fatherhood at this stage of my life.<br>She’s prepared to raise the child alone, but she’s upset that I’m not happy about the pregnancy. I feel uneasy about ending the relationship, but I’m not ready to take on this new role.<br>What should I do?<br>TL;DR: Girlfriend is pregnant and I’m not happy about it, What’s next?
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