How would you feel about cohabitation or marriage with a man who's in an open relationship?

And before anyone asks, yes I've tried bringing it up with my partner. He says he loves me, is happy with me, that it's "just a matter of logistics and finances at this point" and that he's not ready to end things with his other partner because he has "a lot of emotional investment in them."<br><br>And I get that. I really do. I also feel like he's holding me back and stalling me in life. I want to get married, have kids, a big house, and I feel like I can't have any of that because he's still with someone else. <br><br>I feel like I'm the only one who wants to do things that are in line with these long-term goals that we've ostensibly agreed to do, but I've also worked really hard to get to where I am and I don't know if I can stay with him and wait out the rest of his relationship.