Sex tourism in Thailand

Hey guys, I (22 m) am to travel for a couple of months this spring/summer to Thailand, the Philippines, Malaysia and Indonesia. I’m not new to traveling as I’ve spent more than 3 years in China so far.<br><br>I really can’t wait to explore these countries and I’m not optimistic about the economy, so I just wanna have a last big adventure after I finished university. <br><br>During my travel, I’m not planning on having sex workers if I can find a local girl to have sex with. I planned to stay in hostels and backpack in order to meet other backpackers to meet girls to sleep with. But we all know this might not work out every time. <br><br>I’m not really into having random hook ups with strangers in general but as a young male, you are not really in the position to pick . The last time I was in Thailand I hooked up with 3 sex workers but I didn’t really enjoy it. <br><br>That’s why I’m looking for women I can trust. I would prefer to date local women than pay for sex. It’s more fun to have sex with someone you can trust than a sex worker (at least in my opinion). But I don’t really have the time to date someone while traveling and I don’t know how to find women in general. <br><br>I also really hate these so called “girl bars” because I don’t like the environment and the vibe when I’m surrounded by dozens of sex workers, it’s not really fun and my last experience was not worth the money at all. <br><br>But I know I’m gonna want to have sex from time to time. I would love to meet someone who can show me around in a city and I have someone to sleep with. <br><br>But where can I find these women? I know a lot of young women like to meet foreigners so it should be easy to find? I’m not looking to have a relationship when I’m back home but someone to sleep with and show me around. I just don’t know how to find these women.<br><br>My friends told me to use tinder or other dating apps but I’m not really into dating apps. <br><br>I’m also not sure if I should tell I’m only looking for a sexual relationship with a woman who can trust. Do I start dating her and then tell her? Or do I tell her right from the beginning? I really hate to manipulate someone.