i’m a girl and i’m genuinely sorry if you guys think you will never find love

hi guys <br><br>i literally cannot imagine how it would feel to never have someone I love romantically love me back. similar, my brother is 10 years older than me and i’ve always known he’s a little depressed about being single, he’s not a bad looking guy, he’s like 6ft 1min tall with a good physique and he has a good job as an engineer. he’s kind, genuine, gentle, ambitious, funny and a good person within. he’s always been there for me and is kind to everyone, he’s a bit socially awkward but i don’t really see that as a bad thing. <br><br>if i were a guy i would definitely approach a guy like him if i were gay because, why not? he’s a good guy. my point is, just from looking at him i can tell he’s a good guy, and i’ve seen the kindness in him, I don’t think he is an incel but i’ve similar problems with an ex who was tall shy and never had a girlfriend, he cried to me because he said I’m the only person he’s ever love and will ever love but he never has the confidence tell me because he’s tall and thin. he would never get a date if he tried because he has no confidence and is very socially awkward. I’ve also, in my childhood, grown up with another guy who is 6ft3 tall, he’s never liked me but he’s always liked a girl named Helen we all grew up with. He’s also socially awkward, and I notice when we all hang out that he’s trying to impress Helen, he would buy her presents and invite her out to spend time together, but she doesn’t fancy him, and I see him cry from time to time when I tell him my stories of my ex who used to love me. <br><br>my point is, I don’t know if any of you have ever had love in your life. I’ve loved 4 guys in my life so far, two have liked me back, and from the times I was with them, love is the best feeling in the world. I would never wish for someone to go their whole life without experiencing that, and I’ve seen this in my family and friends, and I can see how sad it makes them. I hope you guys stop feeling worthless and lonely. I hope you guys find love soon, but you just have to be confident and approach someone you like. I’m not saying it’s easy, I’ve had to give up on a few guys I love because I don’t think they will ever like me the way I like them, so I know how it feels. but if you are someone who is socially awkward and shy, don’t lose hope and feel worthless, you just have to keep trying and approaching people. this is similar for the guy who used to love me, just from being confident, he got more dates and had more phone numbers than he’s ever had, and he’s like super tall for a guy.