My (26M) wife (26F) has grown distant after I got fat again. How do I approach her about it?

My (26M) wife (26F) and I have been together for 8 years and married for 4 years. <br><br>When she and I started dating I was 90 pounds heavier than I am now and she was 40 pounds lighter than she is now. Throughout our relationship I lost 90 pounds and she gained 40 pounds. <br><br>After our wedding I started slowly regaining weight, over the past year I regained all 90 pounds. <br><br>She became more distant over time as I started regaining weight. I thought she just didn’t like how I looked or something, but I just want to make sure she is doing okay or if she is upset with me for some reason. <br><br>How would I approach the conversation with her about how distant she has grown recently? I am just not sure how to start the conversation without sounding like I am attacking her.