Why do women choose to reproduce with males?

I don't understand, we're inevitably going to be fucked up in the head no matter what. Why would you bring a human into this world to suffer? And it makes things worse for the woman since she is having to raise a child and will inevitably judge herself and be guilty for making the decision to reproduce. We watch videos of how birth affects us short and long term in middle school and yet women still reproduce? Why do women put themselves through this shit? And even if you reproduce because you are religious, why would you think it's okay? God made humans suffer and all he made us for was for him to get entertainment out of it. I don't understand why any woman would think that it's okay to bring someone into the world to suffer because of religion. What the fuck?