This is why I never, ever, want to be a single father

So here's the story.<br><br>My soon to be ex SIL(27F) cheated on my brother (30M). She was caught and after being caught, she cheated on him again. <br><br>My brother, as you can probably guess, has filed for divorce. <br><br>As it currently stands, the cheating ex wife is pregnant with a child that is NOT my brother's. <br><br>Here is where it gets really fucking shitty. <br><br>The soon to be ex-SIL has tried to convince my brother to adopt the child to save their marriage. <br><br>The soon to be ex SIL will not terminate the pregnancy. <br><br>I cannot imagine being my brother here. He is fucking PISSED and absolutely devastated, beyond consolation. <br><br>How the FUCK would I ever be ok with raising a child I did not father? And worse, raising a child that was conceived while my spouse was cheating on me? That child would be a reminder for the rest of my fucking life that my spouse cheated on me and needed me to raise her fuckbunny's child. <br><br>Fuck that. <br><br>Absolutely. Fucking. No. <br><br>My brother is absolutely heartbroken and has basically barricaded himself indoors. He spends most of his time crying and is in extreme emotional pain. I have never seen him in so much pain and I do not know what to do to help. <br><br>I am hoping he seeks therapy, but I am not optimistic. <br><br>I know a man that basically had this same thing happen except the cheating was actually happening for years and he didn't find out until after the kid was born. He was even in the delivery room for the birth. It was an absolute nightmare for him and it has left psychological scares that I can see affect him to this day. <br><br>If I ever caught my spouse cheating, I would leave immediately, but this is just an additional reason to never want to be a dad.