Any other parents sick of having to make sure their kids are ok with the roommate situation?

I've been through 2 different roommates already this year. I've been talking to a couple of others for the past week now that have seemed extremely nice and normal so I decided to ask my kids if they are ok with them moving in this weekend. Of course one of them says "no" because they wanted someone with a car. I get it I was once young too but it's getting really fucking annoying. I'm tired of living paycheck to paycheck and having to pay my own way through school because I'm not getting any fucking help from anyone and all I ask is for my kids to be ok with a roommate and they're picky as fuck. Like yeah I want someone who is gonna be nice to my kids but no matter what I do my kids always say no at the end of the day. I feel like I'm getting judged for every fucking thing I do. I don't want to have to move into a one bedroom that's gonna cost me way more money than what I'm paying now to please them or have to move back in with my husband I separated from 5 years ago just because of my kids. I don't know what to do I just wish my kids would understand that I'm trying to make a better life for myself and them and they would stop being so fucking difficult. <br><br><br>This is a copy is copy paste from 3 months ago I'm back in the same situation and I'm just venting because I hate myself for letting this happen and I hate how I feel like I'm failing as a mother by letting my kids down even when they're the ones making my life harder.