My friend's (17f) mom is pushing her to have sex with her boyfriend (17m) before he goes to college six hours away next year. Advice needed.

My friend "Jess" has been dating "Luke" for almost 3 years. Luke is a star student/athlete and has already been accepted to a college six hours away. Jess has to reapply to multiple colleges, but the odds are in her favor that she'll get into a good one.<br><br>Luke leaves in August 2016, so they still have time to spend together. Luke and his mom have been hinting at the idea of Jess losing her virginity to Luke before he leaves. I know this because I was present when Luke's mom brought it up. She said "I just don't want Luke to have to worry about leaving a girlfriend behind when he has the rest of his life ahead of him".<br><br>Luke's mom's comments have escalated to the point where she is saying that Jess is immature for not wanting to have sex. I personally do not think that my friend is ready, and I have been telling her that. My concerns about her not being ready for sex are: <br><br>1. She has been brought up in a religious household, and is afraid to disappoint her parents. <br><br>2. Luke has been making comments along the lines of "it will hurt the first time but it will feel better the second time", which I personally think is false.<br><br>Jess and I have been arguing non-stop because she feels like I am pressuring her to wait until marriage, but I think that she has the right to choose not to have sex. She is beginning to sound like she's brainwashed to me. I don't know how to help her. Has anyone experienced this situation? How did you resolve it?