Why do so many men keep randomly text messaging me?

I want to say this is a glitch in the matrix, I just have so many men that men keep randomly text messaging me. Like I get it men have simply menial lives and so they’re just bored but I find it odd. Some of them you can tell they don’t have anyone messaging them, I have even done the trick where when a man is texting me and he simply likes the friend/ companion part of communication: they stop cold once I tell them I can do an nsa hook up. Then they never text me again until I text them. I just find that odd and honestly if that’s the case, if you’re only interested in me for a hook up, then whose the other people your texting? So yeah this is a glitch in the matrix and I think if every woman saw my texts everyone would think the same, and honestly I feel this is just a glitch in the matrix.