Are there a lot of people here that use the "bikini bod" , "swimsuit season" model to motivate their weight loss?

I'm a guy and I've never needed or, "wanted" to change my body type to get girls, they just naturally like me so I don't understand this train of thought, why would you want to change your body for somebody else? Have you not read the story of barbie doll? It was created from the image of a perfect woman and in real life, the proportions are impossible to obtain. <br><br>This isn't about weight loss, I understand that being overweight is unhealthy and I'm not trying to promote being overweight, this is about people that are cold, calculating, and manipulative. I think the "bikini bod" is over sexualized and gives men a reason to degrade women and tell them what their bodies should look like. I believe this is a form of body shaming and it's disgusting.