My (28F) husband (29M) is a wonderful man but not good in bed and it's Attached to my lack of orgasm and I don't know what to do

I know this might sound like a weird complaint but here it goes.<br><br>My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We share many hobbies, have similar interests and are overall perfect for each other. He's also Attached and takes care of me and our baby girl (2) and would never even think about straying. He's also very good to me in the emotional and mental sense and takes care of me and our family.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>But we have a issue when it comes to intimacy.<br><br>I've never had an orgasm with him. Whenever we're being intimate, it's just not good for me. It's not even like he's over when I haven't gotten over the hump, it's just that being with him never brings me to climax. It's always me that has to take matters in my own hands and finish the job myself, even when he goes down on me. I don't know what to do and it's making me very insecure. I always wondered if I was just broken in this department but every time I use a dildo vibrator, it's like a world of difference.<br><br>I've tried talking to him about it multiple times, and he always says he'd try. But nothing ever materialises.<br><br>We had a small fight over it recently and he suggested that maybe I should just continue taking care of myself and that it's no big deal that I can't have an orgasm with him.<br><br>What. I was taken aback. He said that it's not a big deal, after I cried and told him how insecure it was making me that I couldn't climax with him? All I wanted was to share that with him but he made it sound like it was nothing.<br><br>We had a massive fight again about it and now he's not even talking to me. He says I hurt his pride when I said that his "manhood" is in question and he can't believe I don't trust him to satisfy me. He says I should be happy that he didn't get mad at me and instead offered me a solution. He's also accusing me of not loving him as much because of this.<br><br>What should I do? I know every couple has their issues but this one just hit a new low. I do love him and all but what am I supposed to do moving forward?