I (M23) struggling with the fact my girlfriend (F23) has been with more people than her.

&#x200B;<br><br>My gf (23F) and I (23M) have been dating for 3 years and have talked about almost everything. However, I recently found out that she has been with 11 people before me, which has made me feel uneasy. Although I've only been with 5 people, including her, I'm struggling to understand why she was so open with so many people.<br><br>She has reassured me that she loves me and wants to be with me, but I'm still grappling with the concept of polyamory and the fact that she has been in relationships with multiple people. I'm not sure how to process this information and feel like I need guidance.<br><br>Update: thanks to everyone for their replies. They really helped. I talked to her about it<br><br>Edit: fixed a grammar mistake I made.