[UPDATE] My (31M) wife (29F) cheated and is now pregnant.
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The first post got locked before I could respond to all the comments, so I am unable to reply to everyone.<br><br>First of all, I just want to thank everyone for the kind words of support and help. The situation is not easy for anyone and it's nice to know that I have the support of people in this sub even if it's just words of support.<br><br>I have talked to my wife and told her that I can't stay in the relationship because she cheated. I have explained how I feel and that my trust is gone and it would be tough for me to ever trust her again. She told me she understands. We have decided that we will stay friends for now and I have offered her to stay until she finds somewhere else to go. She can also keep the main bedroom and I will sleep on the couch.<br><br>I have offered to pay for the abortion but she told me she was unsure about it. I understand that it's a tough decision for her and if she needs time, I'll let her have it but I have also told her that I might need to think about it as well. I am not a dad material and don't know if I ever am.<br><br>She has asked if I could pick her up from her sisters house because she doesn't want her family to know that we're splitting up. I have agreed.<br><br>I am glad that the situation ended this way as amicably as possible.<br><br>Again, thank you all for the support.<br><br>TL;DR: Wife and I talked and split up. She can stay until she finds somewhere else.
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