I've been dating a women for a few months and I'm getting ready to break up with her. Here is my experience.

So, I'm getting ready to break up with a woman I've been dating for a couple of months. In the past, I was a bit of a white knight. I am now getting ready to break up with a woman I was dating. In fact, I'm having a couple of beers to screw up the courage. After I'm done writing this. <br><br>Instead of being bitter, I want to share my experience. I thought I would write my story for anyone to learn from. <br><br>The woman I've been dating is attractive, hard working, and intelligent. She is also very kind, genuine, and polite (one of the kindest people I have met). She was kind to everyone, all of the time. This is what caught my attention at first. She is also smart, and we had a lot of fun talking politics, science, and other topics. She was interested in me, and I was interested in her, so we started dating. She was also a hard worker, and she had more money than I did, and she was eager to spend it (one of the red flags for me at the time). She thought that spending money was proof of love, and I disagreed at the time. It took a long time for me to figure out that she was a feminist, and that's why she feels like that (women should show love by spending money, and men should show love by giving their time). I think this is one of the biggest differences between men and women, and also one of the biggest reasons why relationships fail. The amount of money a man spends is way too important to women. It's proof of commitment, love, and other things. I think this is one of the reasons why most relationships end, and also why most women eventually lose respect for their spouse (they feel like the man is lazy/stingy, and the man feels like he is being treated like an ATM). I think this is one of the biggest reasons why relationships fail, and also why men tend to have contempt for women after a breakup. <br><br>We had a lot of fun for the first month or so dating her. The first time I met her family was very suspicious. They kept asking me if I made a lot of money, if I was looking for a serious relationship, and other things. I was a bit confused, but I thought they were just joking around at first. I also met her sister, who was VERY critical and judgmental towards me, and I eventually figured out that she was the reason why her parents were so suspicious of me. They were a very wealthy family, and her dad was very successful. In other words, her family was a family of gold diggers, and they wanted me to marry their daughter and support them for the rest of their lives. The worst part is that her sister was also a gold digger, and she was the head gold digger of the family. <br><br>The biggest red flag was when I was talking politics with her (I am conservative, she is liberal). She told me that she wasn't a feminist, but then she proceeded to tell me how much she admired and respected several prominent feminists. I asked her what feminist principles she agreed with, and she told me that women should have equal opportunities in the workplace, and that women should be protected from violence and harassment. I agreed with her, and I told her that women should already have equal opportunities and protection from violence and harassment (we live in the US, and women already have these opportunities and protections). She then told me that women don't have these opportunities and protections yet, and that's why women need feminism to continue fighting for it. I was a bit surprised and skeptical at first, and I tried to explain to her that women already have these opportunities and protections, and that's why most women don't need or want feminism. She then got upset and angry, and I figured out that she was a feminist. <br><br>I started to notice other red flags. She was very critical and judgmental, and she would also get upset and angry often. I think the main reason for this was that she considered herself to be superior to most people, because of her intelligence and social status. I also figured out that she was a gold digger, and I also figured out that she wanted to marry me for my money (she made more than me, but she wanted me to make more money than her). I was a bit confused at first, because she was making more money than me at the time, and she had a higher social status than me as well. I eventually realized that she wanted to marry a man who made a lot of money, because she thought that money was the most important thing in life, and she thought that if she could marry a rich man, that would be the key to happiness. I consider that to be very materialistic and shallow, and it also goes against my personal values (I consider money to be important, but not as important as other things). I realized that she had very different values than me, and she also had very different goals and priorities in life as well. I realized that we were incompatible, and I was planning on breaking up with her eventually. <br><br>The final straw came when I was visiting her town in another state. She offered to let me stay at her house, which I accepted. I drove several hours to get to her house, which also cost me a lot of money in gas and tolls. When I finally got to her house, she wasn't there (she was at work). She told me to let myself in, and wait for her to come home. I let myself in, and I was surprised and upset to find out that her house was dirty and messy. There was trash and laundry everywhere, the kitchen was filthy, and the bed wasn't even made. I was surprised and upset, because she was a very neat and organized person. I eventually figured out that she wasn't the one who cleaned the house. She had a cleaning service that came to her house every week, and she relied on her parents to help her out as well. I was upset, because I thought that she was a hard worker who took pride in her work and other things. It turns out that she doesn't do much of anything, and she relies on other people to do most of the work. I eventually realized that the reason why her parents were so critical and suspicious of me was because they relied on their daughter to find a man to marry and support them. They didn't want their daughter to marry a lazy/stingy man, because they relied on her to find a man who would support them. I realized that they wanted me to support them, and their daughter was a gold digger who also wanted me to support her for the rest of her life. I was upset at first, because I thought she was genuinely interested in me. It turns out that she was only interested in my money, and she was willing to do/say anything to get me to marry her. I felt like I had been manipulated and deceived, and I was angry and bitter at first. <br><br>I'm now planning on breaking up with her, because I realize that we are incompatible. She is a gold digger, and she was only interested in me for my money. She doesn't do much of anything, and she relies on other people to do most of the work. She is also very critical and judgmental, and she has very different personal values and priorities in life. I consider that to be very shallow and materialistic, and I don't want to marry someone who is an entitled gold digger. I've also lost respect and trust for her, because I realized that she was lying and manipulating me the entire time. I'm a little nervous, because I'm afraid that she might get angry or upset. I'm planning on being polite and respectful, but I'm also planning on standing my ground. I've learned a lot from this experience, and I'm a little wiser as a result. <br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Edit: I broke up with her a couple of weeks ago, and it went very well. I was polite, respectful, and empathetic, but I was also firm and direct. I told her that I wasn't interested in a long-term relationship with her, and I told her that we were incompatible. She was upset and angry at first, but she calmed down after a while. I offered to be friends with her, but she told me that she wasn't interested (she wanted to be in a relationship with me, and she wanted me to commit and settle down). I ended things on a good note, and I wished her the best of luck. I'm a little sad that it didn't work out, but I'm also a little relieved. I've learned a lot from the experience, and I'm a little wiser as a result. <br><br>Also, I was a bit surprised by her reaction (she was upset and angry at first, but she calmed down after a while). I think that's because I was prepared for her to throw a tantrum and get angry/upset, but she didn't do that at all. I think that's because I was polite, respectful, and empathetic, and I was also firm and direct. I treated her like a princess, and I also stood my ground. She respected me for being confident and courageous, and she appreciated my honesty and integrity as well. I was a bit surprised, because I thought she would react differently, but I'm also a little relieved. I'm glad that I could end things in a civilized way.