My wife is super hot and I'm wondering what she does with her time..

So my wife gets up at 2am every day. She has coffee and we spend like 30 minutes together. We sit and literally just watch Netflix or something and chat, it's really nice. <br><br>Then I go to bed and she gets ready and leaves around 4. She gets home at 2pm, but at that point I'm just heading to work. I get home at 10 and she's usually already passed out. <br><br>I see my wife for like 45 minutes a day and I literally cannot understand what she does with her time. I know she's been doing that schedule for like 3 years now, but a lot of that time she was working... I assumed she worked 8-10 hour days like most people.<br><br>I assumed she takes super long lunches, but we're so poor and live in an expensive place, I can't imagine she has the money to be out eating and shopping. She almost never has any extra money, and I've literally seen her eat dry ramen noodles 3 meals a day a week at a time because money is so tight and she has no money.<br><br>Plus when she takes super long lunches, she's always like "yeah we had an off day at work, boss told us to take the whole day off why not" but she never tells me that she's doing anything but going out to lunch.<br><br>I've asked her what she does on her days off, and why she's never going out at lunch, and she just gets angry with me. I'm so confused. <br><br>I don't think she's cheating. We've been together for 8 years, and we have a little baby that she's always talking about. She wears our kid's baby blanket in her car and like sleeps with it so I don't know what's happening to her at work. <br><br>I've pulled gps data from her car and she legit just drives around. I can watch her drive 15 miles in a straight line and then turn around and drive back for no apparent reason. I've pulled her credit card history and she spends no money. She never goes to the same place twice in a month. There's no restaurants, no shopping, no movie theater. <br><br>I'm seriously wondering if she's selling drugs... I don't see how we're affording her to drive literally 200 miles a day... I know gas is expensive, and I know her car sucks gas. <br><br>I told my friends and family and they all just laugh at me... they're like "yeah maybe she is selling drugs, but then you'll go to jail" and I'm like no I don't sell drugs... I don't know what she's doing. But like my friends and family are just like "you'll go to jail and lose your kid".<br><br>I just don't get it. I don't know what she's doing, so I can't confront her on it. I don't want to just randomly accuse her. I literally just want to know why she's never home. <br><br>What do I do??