Me (28M) 5’10” 400 pounds (182CM, 182KG). My(23F) 5’1” 210 pounds (155CM, 95KG). Why do I feel like I’m fat shaming her when I compliment her here?

So we’re happily married for three years. Both of us do understand that we are overweight and we refuse to hide it. We have always been very comfortable with our bodies. We’re very vocal about our bodies but we’d like to lose weight. We haven’t been to the gym in ages because we are both super busy in work. My wife has recently started seeing a nutritionist. We have cut alcohol completely. I sometimes drink beer on weekends. We are both very happy. My wife takes care of herself. She is pretty and she always smells nice.<br><br>She’s a very attractive woman. She has short hair. I encourage her to be her best self at all times. She keeps herself well-groomed. Her nails are always painted and she smells nice. She is very smart and she takes care of our finances very well. She cooks very well. We have always been uplifting to each other. We are best friends. We always communicate very openly. We tell each other the good and the bad. I have never fat shamed her. <br><br>But yesterday, I told her that her fat ass looks really sexy and that it does things to me. I also told her that her breasts make me very happy. I told her that I love the way her fat thighs make me feel. She laughed and she thanked me and hugged me for the compliment. But I don’t know, deep down I feel like I’m fat shaming her and I don’t know why. I mean, I did say that I love her ass and breasts and thighs right? But specifically pointing out the fat part of her body? I mean, I do love her fat but I don’t know. I don’t wanna make her feel bad about her body. I feel like an asshole. <br><br>I do tell her that she’s very smart and I do tell her that I love the way she keeps our home and she’s a very good entertainer. I do tell her that I’m the luckiest guy in the world to have her as a wife and I do tell her how proud I am of her for being the woman that she is. But I mean, I feel like when I compliment her and tell her that her fat here and there make me feel this way and make me feel that way, I feel like I’m fat shaming her when really I’m not. I think she knows me well enough to know what I mean when I compliment her this way. But I don’t know. I mean, what if she thinks I’m fat shaming her?<br><br>Please tell me what you think about this.