How do I get my girlfriend to knock off this annoying habit?
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I'm 30 years old, and my girlfriend, Mimi, is 23. We've been together for about five years, and most of the time, everything is great between us. Mimi has a bubbly, optimistic personality and is always there to lift my mood up on my worse days, she's attractive and affectionate, and she's a talented artist. She's been doing well with her career as a graphic designer too. All in all, Mimi's really something special, and I feel really lucky to have her.<br><br>The problem is that Mimi has this habit of talking to herself when she thinks she's alone. She'll just have entire conversations out loud using these high-pitched, squeaky voices. It doesn't matter if she's in the bathroom, changing her clothes, or even if she's just in bed with earplugs - once she thinks she's alone, the chatty voices always start. I know it's a little embarrassing for her too because she's always quiet when she realizes that I can hear, and she's refused to talk about it with me more than once.<br><br>I'm not really sure what to do. I've never brought it up before because I don't want to embarrass her. I'm also worried that she might think that I see her as weird or defective because of it, but the fact that she won't talk to me about it is annoying. It's a little embarrassing for me too because I've had a few embarrassing confrontations with roommates in the past about it.<br><br>We've been living together for over a year now, and it's gotten to the point where I'm finding myself getting more and more annoyed whenever I catch her doing it, especially when it's something obvious or loud, like when she's singing in the shower. I feel like she has no reason to keep doing it because she knows that I know about it, but she still won't stop.<br><br>How can I address this issue with Mimi without making her feel bad or embarrassed? I'm sick of her denying this stupid habit.
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