My partner is miscarrying a twin and I am panicking.

I feel like I am already failing as a father before the baby has even arrived. My partner 20F and I 20M have been expecting a baby for 5 months, and just found out it’s a girl. We were extremely happy and excited to finally tell our families but the midwife made an appointment for my partner to go into hospital to check for growth and position etc, and they told us that the baby had a twin which didn’t survive miscarry, and was absorbing into my partners body. <br>They told us how risky it is and that they weren’t sure if the other twin would be okay but they would check her every week to see if it’s still alive. Now my partner is beside herself and I feel like I have to look after her and be strong even though inside I am terrified they baby will die and I feel responsible. I tried talking to my mum who just said it’s all in gods hands and that she is safe but I just feel helpless and I don’t know what to do. If my baby girl dies I wouldn’t know what to say to my partner to help her and I don’t know if I could cope with the stress of it all. I just wanted to be strong for mine and my child but now I don’t know what to do.<br><br>Edit: I feel like I need to mention that I am an extremely anxious person and that might be clouding my judgement and I don’t know what to do to clear my head.