Unattractive men don't even get to experience loneliness in peace.

I'm a 28 year old guy who is just unattractive, if I'm being completely honest with myself. I don't go out of my way to look bad, I'm just not good looking, and as such, I have always been alone. I've been trying to work on this for years, but I really can't. Even at my thinnest, I still look sloppy and chubby to people, and I can't seem to change that, even though I've tried everything. I've always been a bit of a loner, so by now, I'm pretty much comfortable with it. <br><br>The reason I'm posting this is that I've come to the realization that I don't even get to feel comfortable in my loneliness. I don't get to be a lone wolf, I don't get to be an introverted loner, no. I have to be a loser who can't get a date to save his life. And people always remind me of this, always. They always say "Oh, you're lonely because you're unattractive", "You're not attractive enough for women so of course you're alone", "You're not successful enough to be attractive". It never ends. And I can't even do anything. I can't work out, I've wasted hundreds and hundreds of dollars on gym memberships and diet plans with nothing to show for it. I look okay in clothes, but with them off, I'm a total mess.<br><br>And if I ever complain about it, it's always "Well, fix it then, get a better job and lose the weight". It's not that easy, I've tried, and I've been trying for years and I've seen absolutely nothing in the way of positive results. I just don't think I have it in me to be attractive. Like that's what I'm realizing, I'm just not wired to be attractive, and it fucking sucks.<br><br>I just wish I could be lonely in peace without anyone constantly making it my fault.