What is UP with women on social media?

I just started using tiktok again and I see a ton of women giving men their own platform to speak. They use women’s platforms to just display men. Talk about sexism and patriarchy but then bring them to your table to talk about sexism and patriarchy on YOUR platform. The entire point of creating platforms for women is to give women a voice. Women are always being silenced and then we go on social media to have men’s voices. It just seems like women constantly try to silence one another and to put men’s voices on women’s platforms. Just a huge problem and infuriating to see women do this.