Truly I have never encountered a more depressing sub than this

Not a troll I promise. I just happened across this sub while browsing and I would just like to say I had no idea men felt this way. Have I just been oblivious as a female? I have always tried to be kind to everyone I meet regardless of race, gender or social status. I SO wish I could change the world for you guys. That's all. Thank you for your candor. I surely won't forget this.