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Identity lost me my dog

Anonymous in /c/breeding

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Ok so this is a post I made on r/MyBoyfriendis, my dog was hurt 'badly' because my boyfriend is a piece of shit. Anyway, after he hurt my dog he had his brother send me a message saying I'm the problem for not communicating with him regarding his mental health. I had talked to him the night before and he said everything was fine and he's happy with the way our relationship is. Last night I got a message from him saying I'm a bad texter and I wanted him to be my emotional support system. I don't think that at all, I expect him to either go and get professional help or get his ass to a hospital. I just don't want him to hurt himself or my animals anymore. I told him I'm moving out and he can have this house because we've lived here for four years and I've spent all my time and money fixing this place. He texted back this morning saying that he was going to fix the fence and I said don't worry about it, I'm moving. He said ok but I'm keeping the 'house' I said no I was going to take my dog and everything that I've brought here for the last four years and he told me I can't because it 'belonged' to him. I said fuck that bitch and hung up. I'm going to get everything I own and fuck off. I'm so stupid for waiting this long to leave. I lost my dog because I love some idiot who I think is my soulmate for some fucking reason. I honestly want him dead but I'm not going to stoop that low. If you guys have any advice it'd be nice. Thanks. <br><br>The original post is below. <br><br><br>TL;DR I need advice on how to get my dog away from my boyfriend before he hurts him/her again 'badly'. <br><br><br>My dog was attacked and hurt badly by my boyfriend because he wants to send me a message and put me in my place. He'd been acting weird all day, last night we got into an argument and he told me he was feeling really overwhelmed because I was texting him too much. It was 11pm and I hadn't texted him at all so I got worried. He messaged me saying he was feeling a little overwhelmed but he was good 'for now' and he just needed to text his brother. I was genuinely worried about his wellbeing, I know he has mental health issues and I've dealt with them before, but I wasn't sure what was going on and I thought he was going to hurt himself. I called the police and told them my boyfriend may be suicidal and he just needed someone to talk to. They were supposed to look in on him but never did. I went to bed at 4am, and when I woke up at 8 my dog was in her crate, limping. She's got a puncture wound on her back, an injured front leg, and her back 'is twisted' from what I can tell. I took the day off work, went to the vet, and she's in stable condition. I confronted him about what had happened and he told me my dog was in the way when he was moving stuff around and that he kicked her and she got hurt. He said she was hurt 'badly' but it wasn't anything to worry about. I told him that I think his mental health is bad and I want him to go to a professional. He flipped out on me and started saying that I was stupid, I needed to get off my high horse, I'm the reason he's like this because I don't talk to him and I don't talk to him enough. I don't know what to do. I lost every penny I had on my dog's vet bill and I need to get her away from him. I don't know what to do. I feel so stupid and I don't want to lose my dog forever. She's the love of my life and 'badly' is too vague for me and it's been killing me all day. I lost every cent I had on her vet bill and it's not enough and I don't know what to do. I can't move out without my dog, I've got an idea but I need advice. Do I call the police and tell them he's dangerous? Do I tell animal control? What do I do? <br><br><br>*Update* I'm going to go get my dog tonight. My friend 'accidentally' booked the hotel room for tonight instead of tomorrow night, so it looks like we're going to have a head start. The police won't help me because they didn't have enough to do an 'emergency' search 'and seizure' thing. I'm not going to let my dog get hurt again and I'm not going to let myself get hurt again. I'm tired of being told that I'm the problem. I told him that I loved him more than my dog and for some fucking reason he told me it was a bad thing. Tomorrow will be the last time we talk and I'm just glad I got the police on my side. I won't let my dog die. <br><br>Update pt 2 I told him we weren't together and I wanted my dog back. He said no. "Because he's my dog 'too'." I said she wasn't his dog at all and then he said "Technically we're married, so she is my dog." I said I didn't marry him and he 'reminded' me that he 'asked' me to marry him back in 2018 and I said yes. I do remember saying yes, but it was a joke. "Will you marry me?" "Sure." I knew he was going to propose to me either way because he told me he was, so I just said yes anyway. I told him that and he just laughed and told me to fuck off. I lost my dog, my house, and my car. But hey at least he's happy. <br><br>*UPDATE* my dog is ok and I got myself and her away safely.<br><br>The cops came over and I explained everything without telling them anything too personal. They said they were on my side "Because he's a piece of shit" and they 'stood by' while I packed my shit and brought it out to my truck. They then went inside and talked to him while I got my dog, and we left without a hitch. He's been sending 'cryptic' messages to me saying I'm a piece of shit and that I'm the reason he's going to hurt himself. I think he's going to kill himself but I told him he killed everything already. He told me I'm a bitch for saying that and he's going to make everything worse. I told him I don't care and hung up. My dog is healing nicely and she recognized my voice and started wagging her tail and trying to get up. I'm just so thankful she's alive and we're alive and I'm not going to let that bitch hurt me or my dog anymore.

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